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Realign with Your Rhythms: A Holistic Path to Inner Balance

Are you feeling a bit lost, stuck, or overwhelmed lately? If so, you're not alone. In our fast-paced modern world, it's all too easy to feel disconnected from ourselves and the natural world around us.


As an integrative counsellor who believes in the power of holistic healing, I deeply appreciate the profound connection between our mind, body and our environment. When one is out of sync, the other often follows. But what if I told you that a powerful antidote to feeling lost or stuck lies in something ancient, something innate within us all? It’s about tapping into the incredible wisdom of natural rhythms – the subtle yet profound cycles that govern life on Earth, and indeed, within you.


Think about it: nature thrives on cycles – day and night, seasons, lunar phases. And as part of nature, so do we. When we learn to honour these rhythms, we unlock a powerful pathway to mental clarity, emotional resilience, and a deep sense of peace.

Let's explore some beautiful ways you can begin to realign with these natural rhythms and gently guide yourself back to balance.

reset your circadian rhythm with natural light
reset your circadian rhythm with natural light

Embrace the Power of Light: Your Circadian Rhythm

Our internal clock, known as the circadian rhythm, is profoundly influenced by light. When this rhythm is out of whack, it can throw our sleep, mood, and energy levels into disarray.

How to tune in:

  • Sunlight at Sunrise and Sunset: One of the simplest yet most effective practices is to expose yourself to natural sunlight shortly after waking and again as the sun begins to set. This signals to your brain when it's time to be awake and when it's time to wind down. Even 10-15 minutes can make a difference.

  • Benefits: Regulating your circadian rhythm can significantly improve sleep quality, boost mood, and enhance cognitive function. Studies show that exposure to natural light in the morning can lead to better sleep efficiency and reduced symptoms of depression.

  • Blue-Light Blocking Glasses: As evening approaches, consider wearing blue-light blocking glasses, especially if you're looking at screens. Blue light emitted from devices can suppress melatonin production, making it harder to fall asleep.

wild garlic growing in the spring is great for foraging and adding flavour to dishes
wild garlic growing in the spring is great for foraging and adding flavour to dishes

Feast with the Seasons: Eating for Your Well-being

Our ancestors instinctively ate what was available around them, in harmony with the changing seasons. Modern diets often disregard this natural cycle, leading to a disconnect from our food sources.

How to tune in:

  • Embrace Seasonal Produce: Make an effort to eat as much seasonal produce as possible. Think vibrant berries in summer, hearty root vegetables in winter, and glorious wild garlic at the end of March. If possible try and get out and either forage for berries growing locally or try growing your own tomatoes in the summer.

Benefits: Eating seasonally often means your food is fresher, more nutrient-dense, and supports local farmers. It also helps you feel more connected to the natural world and its rhythms, creating a sense of alignment and well-being.

track your cycle to identify times for rest
track your cycle to identify times for rest

Honour Your Inner Cycle: The Menstrual Rhythm

For women, our menstrual cycle is a profound and often overlooked rhythm that influences our energy, mood, and creativity. Instead of fighting against it, imagine harnessing its power!

How to tune in:

  • Track Your Cycle: Pay attention to the different phases of your cycle – menstrual, follicular, ovulatory, and luteal. Note how your energy levels, focus, and emotional state shift throughout each phase.

  • Schedule with Your Cycle:

    • Menstrual Phase (Bleeding): A time for rest, introspection, and gentle activities.

    • Follicular Phase (Pre-Ovulation): Energy often begins to rise; a great time for planning and new ideas.

    • Ovulatory Phase (Around Mid-Cycle): Often a peak in energy and social connection; perfect for productivity and engaging with others.

    • Luteal Phase (Pre-Period): Energy may dip; a good time for completing tasks and winding down.

  • Benefits: Understanding and working with your cycle can help you avoid burnout, optimise your productivity, and foster self-compassion. It allows you to schedule in times of high energy for tasks that require focus and times of rest for replenishment, reducing feelings of overwhelm and anxiety.

the lunar cycle
the lunar cycle

Ride the Lunar Waves: The Moon Cycles

The moon, with its constant waxing and waning, has long been associated with human emotions and energy.

How to tune in:

  • New Moon Magic: The New Moon is a potent time for new beginnings, setting intentions, and bringing in fresh energies and ideas. It's a quiet, introspective time.

  • Full Moon Release: The Full Moon is a time of culmination, illumination, and release. It's an ideal time to let go of what no longer serves you, whether it's old habits, limiting beliefs, or stagnant emotions.

Benefits: Working with the lunar cycles can provide a rhythmic framework for personal growth, allowing you to regularly check in with yourself, set intentions, and consciously release what's holding you back. This can be incredibly empowering, especially when feeling stuck or overwhelmed.

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Dance with the Earth's Year: The Wheel of the Year

The Wheel of the Year is a beautiful framework based on the eight seasonal festivals observed by ancient cultures, marking the solstices, equinoxes, and the midpoints between them.

How to tune in:

  • Celebrate Equinoxes and Solstices: Use these powerful turning points in the year as opportunities for reflection.

    • Spring Equinox: New beginnings, planting seeds of intention.

    • Summer Solstice: Abundance, celebration, peak energy.

    • Autumn Equinox: Harvest, gratitude, letting go.

    • Winter Solstice: Rest, introspection, preparing for renewal.

  • Journal Prompts: Use these times for journaling. For example, at the Autumn Equinox, you might ask yourself: "What am I ready to release and let go of from this past season?" or "What am I grateful for from the harvest of my efforts?"

  • Benefits: Connecting with the Wheel of the Year fosters a deeper connection to nature's cycles, provides anchors for reflection and intention setting, and can bring a sense of meaning and purpose to your year.

Taking the First Step

Adopting a cyclical approach to living isn't about rigid rules; it's about gently aligning yourself with the natural flow of life. Even choosing one or two of these practices to start with can create a profound shift in your mental and emotional well-being.


If you're feeling lost, stuck, overwhelmed, out of balance, or struggling with anxiety, remember that you have an inherent wisdom within you, connected to the very rhythms of the Earth. By tuning into these natural cycles, you can begin to weave a tapestry of balance, peace, and resilience into your daily life.

As a holistic counsellor, I'm here to support you on this journey of rediscovery and realignment. Reach out if you'd like to explore how we can work together to help you tap into your innate wisdom and thrive.


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